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To be fair, James is not a demanding friend, he does provide guidance and advise when requested, can carry heavy items and change lightbulbs that are too far up for me to reach, tries his best to keep me grounded, and does not even seem to expect sex in return( thanks god for that!).
Somehow, his presense in my life is irritating.
It may seem a trivial detail, but I 've noticed that now, when we have been out and I invite him back for a cup of tea , he does reach for the light switch in the front room before I do, and for some reson, that is driving me mad! it kind of feels too assertive on his behalf, as if he was stepping on my territory, invading my private space, some woulld say it is only a light switch, what's the big deal? to me , it means a lot, it is my home, my flat, my private space, I am the one who should be switching on the light when walking in!
Who is he to to that on my behalf?
