Okay, so I still live with my parents (I am not old enough to move out), and my father lost his job for the better part of three years. My family struggled the whole time. When my father finally got a decent job a few months ago my mother promised me that we would get our lives back to the way things used to be. Well several months later my family is still struggling very badly. I can't help but feel very guilty for the amount of money I cost. I have a job, but my parents refuse to take money from me because they feel like I should keep it because I earned it. I pay for myself the best I can, but I still feel horrible. I've been very upset about this for years now, but it's really bad now because my father has a job, and it still isn't any better. I would just like to know how to stop feeling so guilty.