Everyday I learn more about who I am and am not. I could tell you who I am not but what's the point. Focus on what you're not and you turn into a ugly person, focus on what you are and we turn into an even uglier person. Why? because as much as some people hate to hear about your problems, they hate it even more to hear about your accomlishments. We've all done it, we all do it and we'll all deny it.