I hope this helps. I realized that I need to talk to someone but I am not a face to face person. Spilling my guts to strangers gives me some hope because I would never talk to anyone I know about this. My 14 year old daughter and her boyfriend just broke up. I think it bothers me more than her. I think its because when they were together I saw what they had and I did not have that. It feels like he broke up with me. It wasn't even my relationship. THIS IS STUPID!!! I try and give my daughter what I didn't get as a kid. I think I am trying to live thru her. How pathetic. As an adult this should not be happening.